Just like everyone's favorite snack Maruchan, in only 3 minutes, you'll be able to catch up with Mark & Bern in Yokosuka, Japan. Enjoy!

Sunday, June 15, 2014

First 100 Days

Last Wednesday marked the first 100 days since Bern and I got to Japan so it's befitting that this post be somewhat of a progress report to break down just a few of the key aspects of living abroad. A "smorgasbord" if you will of our time here in Japan so far. Time sure does fly huh? Well, Enjoy!

(In no particular order)

1. Numbers

We are normally not susceptible to numerology but it's crazy how the universe seems to give us  these small, subtle hints to suggest that maybe we were meant to be here. For example:

Our Mailbox
Bern's birthday is November of 1978 

Our Apartment
My birthday is in October & Bern's favorite number is 2


Pitcher for the Chiba Lotte Marines
Same last name & the number 28 is the day of our anniversary
2. Cherry Blossoms come and go with a quickness
   
These well-known Japanese trees literally blossom within a week's time (around the last week of March) and then they are gone. But they are a sight to see when they do so if you are looking to come out specifically for the Cherry Blossoms, plan accordingly.
     


 
3. Transportation in Japan
 
A) Driving- This clever idea is something I wish the U.S. would incorporate with new & elderly  drivers. By placing these stickers on the back & front of your vehicle, it gives others a better sense of their surroundings while driving.
 
New Driver

Elderly Driver
B) Trains- This is perhaps the best way to get around the country. Every major city is connected to the railways. It is fast, on time, surprisingly quiet inside. But of course depending on what time of day, they can get quite congested. So say goodbye to your "personal space" when you run into a big rush of people trying to get from point A to point B.
 

Many Japanese people wear surgical face masks

His job is to PUSH as many people into the train as possible
    
Standing on the left side of ANY escalator to allow people to pass 
4. Yellow brick roads
    
Everywhere we've gone so far there are these yellow bumps on the ground which are for the blind. 
 

5. Unusual video games
 
The days of going to your local arcade and dropping quarters to play the latest video games may be over in the states, but they are alive and well here in Japan. I guess it's not that surprising since the Japanese practically revolutionized the gaming industry. But while strolling through a few arcades, there are some pretty unique games on the floor including this game:
 
 
The objective is to flip over the table as hard as you can & see how many things you can destroy  in the particular setting you choose (office, restaurant, etc...) Who hasn't imagined doing this in real life? haha
 
6. Favorite restaurants
 
We love eating sushi 1-2 times a week at the sushi go-arounds. There is one right across the street from our apartment which is super convenient, but we prefer to eat at the one that we first went to which is only a quick 5 minute drive away.
 
 
 
       
But we also love going to this one place called Pepper Lunch, where they have different types of beef & steaks brought out to you on these sizzling, cast-iron plates (think fajitas at Chili's). On every dish they put a dollop of this pepper-infused butter which is amazing since I practically put pepper on everything. SCORE!   
 

        
7. Japanese toilets (great segue huh?! haha)
 
The westernized style toilets are awesome! They are so high-tech and most come with heated seats. But in many Japanese restrooms, they still have these squat toilets which we both are still reluctant to use... Wouldn't you? 
    
    
 
 
8. Cultural Immersion
 
The best way to really understand a new culture is to completely immerse yourself in it. With that said, I've been keeping myself busy by joining an Aikido class on base. Aikido is a Japanese martial art which is focused on harmonizing the spirit. The founder, Morihei Ueshiba, said that Aikido was really a martial art of love; so there's no offensive attacks, only different ways to redirect an attackers momentum and use it against themselves. Many of the moves we practice are based on the art of the Japanese sword so the first hour of class is dedicated to just that while the second hour is more on the empty hand techniques. What I find most intriguing is that the underlying concepts of Aikido can be applied to our everyday lives. Rather than resist or try to fight a problem head on, we can learn to redirect and somehow try to figure out a different way to be in control of the situation.
 
 
      
I've also taken a liking to Shodo, Japanese calligraphy. Writing the Kanji & Katana is challenging  because it's all about control. Learning how to control the fude (brush) while writing the characters in a particular order is not easy, but here's my very first try at writing the Kanji for "otosan" (father) which was a gift for my Dad on Father's Day.   
 

9. Football (soccer) is very popular

Television broadcasts a lot of soccer games between teams from the Japanese soccer league. And now with the start of the World Cup Tournament in Brazil, soccer fever is at an all-time high as people cheer on their national team. So when in Rome...

My first and only soccer jersey
Samurai Blue
 
10. Work

Now that Bern has more of a lead role at work, she's been having to conduct more one-on-one appointments as well as presentations to clients. This is something that's new for her, but after two successful presentations, she's getting the gist of the material which I'm really proud of her for. She works hard everyday to make this Japan experience all possible so I'm eternally grateful. Good job hun!       
   

Now here are just a few more random observations from these past 100 Days:

11. There's a supermarket inside every mall
12. No napkins in restaurants, instead disposable face towels are used
13. There are vending machines everywhere
14. Money must be placed on a small tray during any transaction
15. All business men carry a "murse" (man-purse)
16. Sleeping on a train is quite common
17. There are no public trash cans
18. People young and old love anime
19. Mayo is a popular condiment (yuck!)
20. Everyone is very respectful
  
Thank you to everyone who keeps up with Matsu-Chan! Hope you've enjoyed catching up with us these past 100 days. It's been an adventure to say the least and we look forward to seeing what the other 995 days have in store for us. Please continue to stay with us on this incredible journey. Take care!      
 
 
     
 
 
 
 
 
 
             
 

3 comments:

  1. I definitely check every other day for your updates Mark, I read it and hear your voice in my head and it makes you seem close to me still! Much love to you both , always. Great kendo pics! Put a filter on it , in black and white and it could look old school :)

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  2. Aww man! My comment didn't post :( Hmmmm...testing testing

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  3. There it goes! booo!!! Anyway...as I was saying. I was cracking up reading this post because just like Bev said, I can totally hear your voice saying all this! haha and I love the transition from food to the toilet! Only you!! hahaha HEY! YOU NEVER TOLD ME YOU TAKE AIKIDO!!! HELLO!!! We NEED to spar when I see you! Ai (Harmony) Ki (inner strength) Do (The Way) I can't wait to visit! So many cool things to see!

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